Life is never static. It undergoes continuous changes. Some of them we would prefer not to see at all.
Some are easier to digest. If we are talking about loving life again, the changes have certainly been harder ones.
As life is a school, these changes can be considered tasks we have to learn. Life is meant to show us that love is the ruling force. We tend to forget that.
Whether we lost somebody, a family member, a close friend, a pet or something dear to us, we will grieve.
This is an important part in overcoming our loss. If we are open and honest with ourselves, we can admit that our feelings for the loss of an important person or something dear to us, is nothing else than self-pity. This is hard to swallow but it is the truth
Grief is something you can elaborate, so that it will turn again into love for life.
Sometimes grief turns into anger. You are angry at life or at people who caused that accident or whatever it was that took the beloved ones out of your life.
Think of the lost person as somebody who has gone to a place where they will no longer suffer, where they can further evolve
Grief cannot last forever, nor can anger. It would mean to bind the deceased person to the earth and not to let them go.
Do not allow yourself to grieve for the dear thing. Let go. The thing has gone and it has gone for a reason. Maybe you got too attached to it and it was taken away from you so that you could be freed from that attachment.
Losses of any kind tell us a lot about ourselves. They also teach us many things and we better listen to these teachings.
First: your mourning can be smoothed by classical music that turns mourning into love. Love for Life. For some people the music might be folk music or other kinds that are closer to their culture. Sometimes a good laugh can also be liberating. It doesn't hurt anybody and can help you a lot.
Second: be open to life. Do not continue to talk about the why of the loss and the how hard it is to live without that person or that thing.
Life goes on. Instead of complaining, keep the lost people or pet in your heart. And let go of the thing. If you hang on to negative thoughts, more negativity will show up. You want to be positive, so think positive.
Third: Do things you feel good about. Do them for other people who will benefit. Their benefit is also yours.
Fourth: Do something for your self-improvement. Meet other people, possibly people who love life.
Fifth: By turning back to life, you honor who has gone and you honor love and life. Don't forget this.
Again: listen to music or laugh together with others.
Be open to life. Let go of what has gone.
Do things you like. Do them for you and for other people
Look forward and do something for your self-improvement
Turn back to life. Honor love and life, they go together and are your best allies.
Some are easier to digest. If we are talking about loving life again, the changes have certainly been harder ones.
As life is a school, these changes can be considered tasks we have to learn. Life is meant to show us that love is the ruling force. We tend to forget that.
Whether we lost somebody, a family member, a close friend, a pet or something dear to us, we will grieve.
This is an important part in overcoming our loss. If we are open and honest with ourselves, we can admit that our feelings for the loss of an important person or something dear to us, is nothing else than self-pity. This is hard to swallow but it is the truth
Grief is something you can elaborate, so that it will turn again into love for life.
Sometimes grief turns into anger. You are angry at life or at people who caused that accident or whatever it was that took the beloved ones out of your life.
Think of the lost person as somebody who has gone to a place where they will no longer suffer, where they can further evolve
Grief cannot last forever, nor can anger. It would mean to bind the deceased person to the earth and not to let them go.
Do not allow yourself to grieve for the dear thing. Let go. The thing has gone and it has gone for a reason. Maybe you got too attached to it and it was taken away from you so that you could be freed from that attachment.
Losses of any kind tell us a lot about ourselves. They also teach us many things and we better listen to these teachings.
First: your mourning can be smoothed by classical music that turns mourning into love. Love for Life. For some people the music might be folk music or other kinds that are closer to their culture. Sometimes a good laugh can also be liberating. It doesn't hurt anybody and can help you a lot.
Second: be open to life. Do not continue to talk about the why of the loss and the how hard it is to live without that person or that thing.
Life goes on. Instead of complaining, keep the lost people or pet in your heart. And let go of the thing. If you hang on to negative thoughts, more negativity will show up. You want to be positive, so think positive.
Third: Do things you feel good about. Do them for other people who will benefit. Their benefit is also yours.
Fourth: Do something for your self-improvement. Meet other people, possibly people who love life.
Fifth: By turning back to life, you honor who has gone and you honor love and life. Don't forget this.
Again: listen to music or laugh together with others.
Be open to life. Let go of what has gone.
Do things you like. Do them for you and for other people
Look forward and do something for your self-improvement
Turn back to life. Honor love and life, they go together and are your best allies.
